Is there any way to not allow private construction in friend function, In case we do have private constructor with friend function in our class. Only Static method should be responsible for object creation and other than this compiler should flash error message

#include <iostream>
#include <memory>
using namespace std;

class a
{

public:
    void see ()
    {

    cout<<"Motimaa";

    }
    static a& getinstance()
    {
        static a instance;
        return instance;
    }

private:
    a() {};
    friend void access();
};
void access ()
{
a obj;
obj.see();//still friend function can access
}

int main()
{

a::getinstance().see();

access();
return 1;

}