I have not been able to get drupal_get_form to pass on the node data.  Code snippets are below. The drupal_get_form documentation (api.drupal.org) states that it will pass on the extra parameters.  I am basing the node data not being passed because (apparently) $node['language'] is not defined in hook_form which causes $form['qqq'] not to be created and thus the preview button shows up.  
My goal here is that the preview button show up using path "node/add/author" but doesn't show up for "milan/author/add".  Any alternative methods for achieving this goal would be helpful but the question I want answered is in the preceding paragraph.   Everything I've read indicates that it should work.
This menu item
 $items['milan/author/add'] = array(
    'title' = 'Add Author',
    'page callback' = 'get_author_form',
    'access arguments' = array('access content'),
    'file' = 'author.pages.inc',
  );
calls this code
function get_author_form() {
  //return node_form(NULL,NULL);
  //return drupal_get_form('author_form');
  return author_ajax_form('author');
}
function author_ajax_form($type) {
  global $user;
  module_load_include('inc', 'node', 'node.pages');
  $types = node_get_types();
  $type = isset($type) ? str_replace('-', '_', $type) : NULL;
  // If a node type has been specified, validate its existence.
  if (isset($types[$type]) && node_access('create', $type)) {
    // Initialize settings:
    $node = array('uid' = $user-uid, 'name' = (isset($user-name) ? $user-name : ''), 'type' = $type, 'language' = 'bbb','bbb' = 'TRUE');
    $output = drupal_get_form($type .'_node_form', $node);
  }
  return $output;
}
And here is the hook_form and hook_form_alter code
function author_form_author_node_form_alter(&$form, &$form_state) {
    $form['author']=NULL;
    $form['taxonomy']=NULL;
    $form['options']=NULL;
    $form['menu']=NULL;
    $form['comment_settings']=NULL;
    $form['files']=NULL;
    $form['revision_information']=NULL;
    $form['attachments']=NULL;
    if($form["qqq"]) {
      $form['buttons']['preview']=NULL;
    }
}
function author_form(&$node) {
  return make_author_form(&$node);
}
function make_author_form(&$node) {
  global $user;
  $type = node_get_types('type', $node);
  $node = author_make_title($node);
  drupal_set_breadcrumb(array(l(t('Home'), NULL), l(t($node-title), 'node/' . $node-nid)));
  $form['authorset'] = array(
      '#type' = 'fieldset',
      '#title' = t('Author'),
      '#weight' = -50,
      '#collapsible' = FALSE,
      '#collapsed' = FALSE,
    );
  $form['author_id'] = array(
    '#access' = user_access('create pd_recluse entries'),
    '#type' = 'hidden',
    '#default_value' = $node-author_id,
    '#weight' = -20
  );
  $form['authorset']['last_name'] = array(
    '#type' = 'textfield',
    '#title' = t('Last Name'),
    '#maxlength' = 60,
    '#default_value' = $node-last_name
  );
  $form['authorset']['first_name'] = array(
    '#type' = 'textfield',
    '#title' = t('First Name'),
    '#maxlength' = 60,
    '#default_value' = $node-first_name
  );
  $form['authorset']['middle_name'] = array(
    '#type' = 'textfield',
    '#title' = t('Middle Name'),
    '#maxlength' = 60,
    '#default_value' = $node-middle_name
  );
  $form['authorset']['suffix_name'] = array(
    '#type' = 'textfield',
    '#title' = t('Suffix Name'),
    '#maxlength' = 14,
    '#default_value' = $node-suffix_name
  );
  $form['authorset']['body_filter']['body'] = array(
      '#access' = user_access('create pd_recluse entries'),
      '#type' = 'textarea',
      '#title' = 'Describe Author',
      '#default_value' = $node-body,
      '#required' = FALSE,
      '#weight' = -19
    );
  $form['status'] = array(
    '#type' = 'hidden',
    '#default_value' = '1'
  );
  $form['promote'] = array(
    '#type' = 'hidden',
    '#default_value' = '1'
  );
  $form['name'] = array(
    '#type' = 'hidden',
    '#default_value' = $user-name
  );
  $form['format'] = array(
    '#type' = 'hidden',
    '#default_value' = '1'
  );
  // NOTE in node_example there is some addition code here not needed for this simple node-type
  $thepath='milan/author';
  if($_REQUEST["theletter"]) {
    $thepath .= "/" . $_REQUEST["theletter"];
  }
  if($node['language']) {
    $thepath='milan/authorajaxclose';
    $form['qqq'] = array(
      '#type' = 'hidden',
      '#default_value' = '1'
    );
  }
  $form['#redirect'] = $thepath;
  return $form;
}
That menu path coincides with this theme (PHPTemplate)